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Zoom Meetings

The pandemic has changed the way we gather for meetings. Zoom and other platforms have become a natural way of life. After Covid, virtual meetings will remain part of the corporate routine. Here are some tips to keep your meetings productive and engaging, now and in the future.

Do a Tech Check

It’s important to be familiar with the platform before jumping on a meeting. Check the volume, test the lighting, be knowledgeable on how to share a screen and take a good look at your background. Everything should come across seamlessly once the meeting begins.

Dress Professionally

Forget the advice you have been given about dressing from the waist up. You may have to step away from the computer screen and you want to be seen from head to toe as the ultimate professional. Avoid wearing pajamas, running shorts or yoga pants with a dress blouse or suit jacket.

Smile … You are on Camera

You may be participating in a virtual meeting with multiple people, and think you are lost in the crowd. On the contrary, your facial expression is unique and individual. The facilitator will notice if you are interested, smiling and engaged. Avoid slouching or multitasking. It will appear as if you are distracted and not an active part of the conversation.

Look Behind You

Do you your best to present a professional background. If you must work from your bedroom, make your bed and clean up your surroundings. Avoid distractions such as inappropriate artwork or Star War memorabilia on the shelf. Make an effort to eliminate any unnecessary distractions.

Mute Your Mic

When you are not speaking, mute your microphone to avoid sounds such as flushing toilets, barking dogs and ringing doorbells. It also gives other participants the ability to share their thoughts without distraction. It will be an embarrassment if you find the moderator had to mute you because of your loud background noise.

Turn On Your Camera

No one enjoys talking to a generic silhouette or a motionless profile picture. If you are taking the time to join the meeting, engage in conversation and let everyone see you live and in color. Keep in mind that communication is both verbal and nonverbal and your words, facial expressions and body language convey your thoughts and send a powerful message.

Whether you’re at the office, attending a celebration or using the restroom, there are definite do’s and don’ts to using technology appropriately. Here are a few of my favorite tips to help you navigate the complex waters of social media etiquette in specific situations:

The Office

  • Don’t vent about office frustrations. Social media may seem to offer a convenient outlet for sharing your feelings and frustrations after a bad day at work—but it’s not smart to use your smartphone in this way. Whether or not you’re connected with colleagues on Facebook or other social media, what you’ve posted on your page often finds its way public. If you say anything about work via social media, steer clear of negative comments, and remain positive at all times.
  • Do limit your time on social media during the workday. While some employers block social media sites on office networks, others trust their employees to manage their own time spent on social media while on the clock. If you’ve been given this privilege, respect your boss and colleagues by spending most of your time at work actually working. You don’t want to be known as that person who is “always on Facebook” every time someone walks by your desk.

Weddings & Special Events

  • Do make a personal connection first. The special people in your life deserve to hear your big news before the whole world finds out on Facebook. Tell family members and close friends about your engagement and wedding news before posting or tweeting about it more widely.
  • Don’t over-tweet the details. Sharing your joy through occasional posts, tweets or photos about your wedding either before, during or after it is one thing—oversharing is another. Remember: everything in moderation. You don’t want guests to be tired of the topic before you even get to the altar.
  • Do make sure you know the couple’s preferences. Wedding guests also need to follow social media etiquette. Just like everyone has a different approach to their wedding ceremony, couples will also have their own preferences when it comes to use of social media during their wedding. Rather than assume that it’s okay to tweet and post pictures to Facebook and Instagram during (or even after) a wedding, check with the couple first.

Restrooms

  • Don’t take it with you. While this point doesn’t seem to need justification, studies show that a surprising 75% of people sometimes take their cell phones into the bathroom with them—and 87% talk or text from the toilet! It doesn’t take a scientist to know that this leads not only to poor etiquette, but to poor health and safety practices that can result in the spread of bacteria.
  • Do remember where your posts might end up. While you may just be in the restroom to step away from the crowd, keep in mind that often accidental pictures develop a life of their own. An innocent selfie can accidentally capture someone else’s image in the background. A few of your social media followers may not be able to resist the temptation to repost these photos, which is ultimately an invasion of someone else’s privacy.
  • Do leave it at your seat. Airplane lavatories aren’t a personal phone booth. Respect your fellow travelers and those you’re communicating with on social media by leaving your smartphone back at your seat when you use the restroom.

When it comes to courteous use of social media in these and other situations, a good rule of thumb is: “When in doubt, don’t.” It’s much easier to catch up on social media at a better time than to extricate yourself from a social media faux pas. Click here for more social media tips.