Dear Diane,
I am getting married in a few months and have received several shower and early wedding presents. I am not sure if I should wait until after I am married to send the thank you notes on personalized stationary. Any suggestions?
Thanks,
RP
Dear RP.,
Proper Thank You Note Etiquette dictates that they are due upon receipt of a gift. While some people may opt to wait to open their wedding presents until after they are married, most do not. The rule of thumb is if you open it, a thank you note is next on your to-do list.
Specifically, pretty white or soft ivory colored note cards, on good quality card stock, are always tasteful. Keep a running list of people who have given you a present, what they have given you, and the date you sent a thank you note. You will have an inventory of gifts and a reminder of who still needs to be sent a thank you note.
One last tip: When acknowledging a person for cash or a check, don’t mention the dollar amount. Simply share how you intend to use the money and how grateful you are for their kind gesture.
Congratulations,
Diane
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